Before delivering the Tar Baby Process, be sure that the agreement is to be standing in a Context of Radical Responsibility, 3 Phase Healing, and the Bright Principle of Transformation. If these elements are missing from the relationship or from the Gameworld, you are in unstable ground and will likely be attacked by uninitiated Gremlins and banished from the Space. The Tar Baby Process removes large sources of Gremlin Food, and the uninitiated Gremlins might oppose this.

Spaceholder keeps their Archetypal Sword Of Clarity to hand (sharp at both ends) and keeps it pointed at each person's neck.

The Distinctions about Gremlin should be landed in the Space at the start of the Tar Baby Process.

Ask each person to Scan themselves for emotional charge and explains what they feel angry, sad, glad, or scared about and why.

Next the Spaceholder 5 Body Scans each person in the group for Emotional Charge and inquires about what is going on there, making a safe place for each person to feel and express their emotions.

Next have the members Scan each other for Emotional Charge that is blocking them from being with each other.

In each case, identify the emotion and the incident that happened at the moment it started.

Put it all on the table.

Choose one or two people in the group to explain to everyone what is going on for them.

• What happened that covers over the connections with 'Emotional Tar'? 
• What is interfering with connections and keeping interactions to a superficial inauthentic level?

This can take a significant amount of time in the meeting because you are probably landing new Distinctions in the Space. People need to have the Matrix to hold and respect the Distinctions. This part of the Process needs to be done formally and it must be documented for all to see and consider on a Flip Chart board and in Beep! Books. Discovering each of these agents is the same as discoving a Doorway to an Emotional Healing Process for the people. Be sure they write it down and commit do doing the Emotional Healing Process. This is not a Low Drama Circus show. This is about growing up into Radical Responsibility.

Spaceholder helps each person to identify:

• Assumptions.
• Expectations.
• Conclusions.
• Resentments.
• Stories.
• Projections. 
• Fears.
• Incomplete Emotional Healing Processes (EHP). NOTE: If an emotional Reactivity is still active, the Process is NOT complete. A complete Process As-Ises the Reactivity and it no longer exists. Processes have layers, just as human beings have Parts. It is worth it to through all the layers. 
• Confusions (unconscious or sideways anger).
• Reactivity (Buttons, Hooks, Triggers, Traumas, Imbalances, Voices).
• Gremlin Contamination in the Adult Ego State.

Make sure everyone is seen in their world.

Make sure everyone is heard in their pain.

This is a 3 Phase Healing process. It Causes Transformation.

Shared awareness makes the 'emotional tar' go away. Notice the 'tar' dissolving. Drop things in Black Holes if needed.

What will each person do differently next time? Renegotiate what works and what does not work starting now.

Be clear and specific.

Make new agreements.

Define new Experiments that each person will try.

This is the Wrap Up.